Like Attracts Likes. Any relationship you have was created based on YOU. Whether it's a romantic, professional, friendship, or familial relationship. . . It may seem like you've attracted people that are opposite of you due to personality and characteristic differences. But when it comes down to it, the people you are most attracted to and gravitate towards are those that have the same core beliefs and values as you. . . Many times our core beliefs are unconscious and we aren't even aware we hold these values. . . . We're aware of our conscious thoughts but sometimes these beliefs aren't what we actually believe. . . Your beliefs about yourself are the determining factors of the type of people you keep in your life. . . If you're not attracting the type of people you want in your life, it could be beneficial for you to work on understanding your unconscious beliefs. . . Inner work towards healing yourself and loving yourself are the first steps of building & attracting healthier relationships in your life.