💜💛🧡 What are you grateful for today❓🧡💛💜 ⠀ I am grateful for this amazing sunset, for my amazing and supportive husband @jphomer98 for a weekend full of transformational experiences, for evolving and for friends walking this journey with me... @happierbyminute @tatiana_ypunto @georgiavanderville @christybyates "Remember you have magic inside of you, you only have to pay attention and let it shine!"
😎🕶😱 Why you are not you, but who I see you thought my own lenses❓😱🕶😎 ⠀ I had the chance to experience how it feels like actually put on a physical pair of glasses for some of the main beliefs and attachments we have, like: ⠀ 💕Beauty Standards 💙Belief in God of something above and beyond all of us 🧡Marriage 💛Happiness 💚Monogamy ⠀ I ended wearing all of them, the two most important ones being: happiness and believing in God. ⠀ I wore them for several hours today and it made me start thinking what lenses I use when I interact with others... and how the judgement I sometimes feel and think is inspired not in others but in the glasses I am wearing at the time 😱 ⠀ What lenses you usually wear❓ I am at #evolve2019 with Dr. Shafeli and it's giving me a lot to think about and reevaluate... in the end we came to this planet 🌏 to keep evolving ⠀ "Remember you have magic inside of you, you only have to let it shine!"
When we judge others or feel our “buttons being pushed” by the things they say and do, we may actually be projecting our feelings onto others. We are accusing others of the very things we disown or reject about ourselves. Here’s how it works… Let’s say you have a fear of rejection that stems from something far back in childhood. More than likely, you’re unaware of this fear. You haven’t yet acknowledged it. Or you know about it, but reject that it’s an issue. Your subconscious mind is aware of it, though. And that part of your mind will always seek opportunities to work out this old issue. It will lead you into situations where you can bring that fear into your awareness. In other words, you will enter into relationships with people who will “trigger” that fear or unacknowledged emotion inside you. You will attract a relationship where your partner will withdraw, act cold, make plans with his or her friends instead of with you, have a hobby they love that doesn’t (or can’t) involve you, etc. Instead of causing you to face and accept your fear, their behavior will cause you to be secretly judgmental or critical. You don’t think, Hmm, I’m feeling afraid that he’s going to abandon me and I’ll be alone again. Instead you think, He never spends time with me, he’s off having fun instead of fixing these things around the house, he’s wasting money playing golf all day when he should be saving money and spending the day with me. Another example – let’s say that you consider yourself a neat, tidy and financially conservative person. You keep your home and car clean and you never spend more than you make. But deep down, you’re really someone who wishes they could forgo responsibility for a while, kick up their feet and be self-indulgent for a change. Read further in the comments
It goes. The years long project finally went down tonight under the stars and by headlamp. It almost felt too easy. Climbing Acid Rock was a stubborn headed quest to prove that just because I couldn't reach the conventional holds on the route, height was not an good enough excuse to not do the climb. I have other strengths besides wingspan. This variation on the classic line will never be in a guidebook. It won't be known by a name (though I have one for it) and I doubt anyone else will bother to even try it. In the end all of that isn't really the point though, is it? . . . . Massive thanks to all the friends who gave belays and encouragement along the way. You all let me fight my fight and never told me it was stupid to pour so much into a line that isn't even the original. @jacob_kron was the motivator to get out there tonight and do it but @fudd1980 @climbs2high @kendrastritch @jakebourdow @benjaminseefeldt @tgehrlein @jackiemichl @nathankutcher @rebecca.lewis.climbing @raphael.slawinski @rockwarzz and more all made varying and meaningful appearances along the way. . . . . On to the next project. It doesn't even feel real. . . . #whyweclimb#send#gettinghighonacid#shorttrip#5foot4#creditcardcrimps#projectwentdown#projecting#itgoeslynn#mydawnwall #basicallytookaslongasthedawnwallsheesh #devilslake#quartzitefordays#ireallyneedanewheadlamp #seriouslythoughihadtoborrowjacobs #climbing